What is your opinion on the belief that one can change their life by changing their thoughts and having a positive mindset?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:02

Don’t think that if the book 📖 “” secret is Titanically successful; it’s ultimate truth””
yes one should be a realist but not a moronic optimist.
“”kabir je jumped straight from unfulfilled basic physiological needs to self actualisation making mockery of MASLOW ‘s need hierarchy theory of motivation “”
it means , oh my mother; I fell in love with such a female who turned out to be unfaithful and made such a flight and never returned to me””
“”one can change nothing without the will of god””
or
How does a person become transgender?
Smearing urself with ashes like aghori sadhu’s or tantrics or yogis - is not the right way to become positive and experiences abundance and manifest all that u people unnecessarily crave for !
just a tear of gratitude 🙏 or love for almighty is enough to bring unthinkable, rare positive changes in ur life .
kabir je was a poor weaver and had a very ordinary looking wife but still knew that there is no difference between his wife and today’s miss world.
When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?
He further says somewhere that had Ellon Musk been in Ethiopia 🇪🇹 etc where there is no such system of libertarianism; he would never have been Ellon musk .
But please ignore these fake babas on u tube and don’t get unnecessarily mesmerised by their great “”articulation skills”. They become billionaires and you stupids ( innocent ) lose 10000 rupees and ur parents starve and die due to lack of decent medical treatment.
In his unbelievable lines he said
”” Don’t become gullible and please go for critical thinking when you are bombarded by “ manifestation through positive thinking “”
once infidelity, always infidelity “
Because ur love is pure, ur heart and soul is pure and ur final intentions are extremely pious.
How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?
Whatever I m writing ✍️, it relates to Maslow ‘s need hierarchy theory as well which I presume the readers know. Still a crisp description. According to him without fulfilling basic needs one cannot move to higher level need of Aesthetics and self actualisation.
Without tasting or acquiring money, fame , a beautiful woman ‘s body ; Kabir knew there is not much difference between two state of affairs.
And as far as I m concerned , I have written in my profile that I believe in one word “”destiny.”
What made you recently say to yourself, “Wait. Really?”
“” adtan na jandian , je Katia bhorian bhorian “
Can a cunning, shrewd and stingy fellow invoke supernatural, paranormal or transcendental powers ?
It’s not possible to be positive without having a clean 🧼 drinking water 🚰 or food 🥘.
Who is someone that inspires you?
No !
“yes, through CBT ( cognitive behaviour therapy ) one can change ones negative thoughts to positive ones but the change doesn’t last and relapse or old patterns of thinking come back”
Only after having a 7 course meal in a 7 star hotel; one realises that a road side restaurant ( dhaba ) was better( not always )
“””””So Shakespeare said that never trust him that hath once broken faith””””
yes it’s true “ agar aap kisee ko shidat se chaho to saree kayanat, apko us se milane mai lag jatee hai “”Shahrukh Khan got the credit and writer got ..?
ok dear we will be positive but first let me run my auto as I need to pay it’s rent !
By constantly feeding ur subconscious mind through positive self talk, through gratitude ; by writing everyday positive things; our subconscious mind can do miracles.
our pineal gland is responsible for secretion of MELETONIN and if it gets secreted ; the bliss is thousand times more than orgasm ; but it doesn’t mean prayer 🙏 can’t open ur third eye or stimulate your pineal gland !
So it’s difficult for a poor person to think positive or change his thoughts 💭or go for aesthetics and self actualisation.
Why don't I get sleep at nights?
””” Mai ne mai main ik shikra yaar banaya ; Ik udari aisee maree fir watni na aaya “””
But people here are missing the spiritual aspect.
But yes please read it carefully .
Why do liberals have a problem with masculine men like Andrew Tate?
Dr. Vikas who has Drishti institute for civil services said that since his parents were professors of Hindi ; so he did masters in Hindi and finally ended up as a director of that institute . He said that he had zero control over his destiny.
so dr Vikas is conveying that we are creatures of destiny.
But through “” prayer 🙏 “ one can become 👑 king and it’s my personal experience.
Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?
we all have a baseline of happiness. Those who win a billion dollars 💵 lottery; there happiness level comes down to baseline level within 15 days or a little more time. Why ?
only a full purse 👛 makes the mouth 👄 speak
shakespear, Bernard shaw, Bertrand Russel all were of the opinion that once we have certain kind of mind set , then it’s difficult to give up the cardinal traits of personality.
What were some things that the ancient Greeks excelled at compared to the Romans?
god is just waiting for ur only single tear and you will or can become master of this world.
Sit at home and pray and u will get everything in life”
Thoughts And habits die hard.
if you and me don’t get water for 3 days, all positivity will fly away like a unfaithful 🦅 bird.
So Buddha realised this as he had the best of everything and after enjoying all, it became too easy for him to leave all of it.
But there were some greater souls than Buddha like Kabir who was perhaps an illegitimate child born of Muslim parents and brought up by Hindu family ( not too sure ). Such souls are already evolved at the time of birth because of previous birth spiritual efforts and experiences.
Bulleh shaw ; a great fakir tried to enlighten us through his unmatched poetry that habits or thoughts are difficult to change.
Without tasting few prettiest ; comely, enticing, buxom, bewitching, females in bed, one can’t know that beneath the smoothest skin is just stinking flesh, bones and elephantine dirt.
4 billion people don’t have a penny in their pockets and at least 10000 self proclaimed philosophers on social media are talking about manifestation of money or anything is possible in few days. ( bastards playing with emotions of innocent penniless humans )
On social media the whole world of influencers are shouting at the top of their voice that u can manifest anything by changing ur thoughts.
when poverty comes at the door 🚪, love💕 flies out of the window.
“””So in a nutshell ; since it’s difficult to change one’s mindset from negative to positive; don’t expect your life will change”””
since our upbringing or socialisation results in such a personality make up that once established , it’s beyond change( few exceptions out of millions )
why the universe will conspire to unite you both with all it’s might ?
so this is fatalist philosophy and i do believe in it !
can we change our lives through positive thoughts and positive mindset ?
only after sitting behind the wheels of a luxurious 🚘 car , one realises that an auto’s journey is more enjoyable as u interact with strangers and many times encounter some philosopher or a noble soul which is not possible in a lonely car.
“”Please Don’t get fixated on the concept of Yoga and kundalini etc””
people like Kabir are beyond time and space and such people are incomparable and perfect.
Habits or what we call as thoughts are almost impossible to change ( only 1 to2 percent people can do this and that too if the mentor is spiritual and has supernatural, otherworldly powers to convince )
But for an ordinary poor man it’s impossible not to think about money, females etc etc etc
please , those who are decently well read, don’t eat the bait thrown at u by social media.
it means our habits die hard even if you cut urself.
Allport , in his trait theory , explained the concept of PROPRIUM . He explained in his theory of personality traits that first the hunter hunts for food but later on hunting becomes his habit or trait or thought process. Now he can’t give up hunting. So habits or thoughts don’t change.